Their are two sisters with the last name of Sisity. One is cute, sweet, helpful and nice to be around.
(If you are a female reading this, feel free to change the sisters to brothers)

The other seems to be around much more than you like and quite frankly, you wish she wouldn't even show up at all.

This sister is called Spascitity. Read what they say about her here: National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke.

Trust me on this, she will make your life miserable. She is very controlling and she will try to keep you from your old activities and friends.

She will also severely limit your opportunity to even try something new or experience any new adventures at all.

Run, don't walk away from her. If you can't run yet, than walk quickly as fast as you able.

I would love to introduce you to her sister, Neuroplascity. She is nothing like her sister. She will be your friend if you let her.

If you work with her, she will reward you greatly. She will encourage you to continue to do the things that you used to do.

She will even coax you to attempt new adventures. She is beautiful inside and out.

I have been seeing her ever since I dumped her sister over two years ago. Like a bad habit however, Spascitity still comes around as an uninvited guest or should I say nuisance?

But now that me and Neuroplascity are now together, she doesn't come around nearly as often.

I have described Neuroplascity in only my second blog written by me on Strokes Suck back on 7/09/2008. A short description of her:

Neuroplasticity challenges the idea that brain functions are fixed in certain locations. Neuroplasticity (variously referred to as brain plasticity or cortical plasticity or cortical re-mapping) refers to the changes that occur in the organization of the brain as a result of experience. A surprising consequence of neuroplasticity is that the brain activity associated with a given function can move to a different location as a consequence of normal experience or brain damage/recovery.

It it up to you though. You can sit back and let Spascity dictate and severly cramp your life. Or you embrace a new and exciting way of living.

Nueroplascity  is not a cheap date however, so do not treat her that way. Take her out and show her off. Take her dancing and watch yourself improve. You will be amazed.

Go to places you have been before and show her around. Then go out and try something new together. I guarantee you will have fun.